If you were to climb a mountain and upon reaching the summit you would be greeted by a man there who knew everything you ever wanted to know, what would your question be? Some may ask, "How can I create great wealth for myself?" Others may want to know how to live long and healthy lives for ever but yet, there would be one or two who would ask, "How can I keep myself motivated and keep others motivated as well?".
If we gain the motivation we seek for ourselves and others then we do indeed have the basic tools to acquire almost everything else a satisfactory and contented life needs. Imagine the disappointment you would feel after you had climbed that mountain asked the question:-
"How can I gain motivation and motivate others around me?"
With the reply by the old man of:-
"To know thyself and be kind?"
"How can I gain motivation and motivate others around me?"
With the reply by the old man of:-
"To know thyself and be kind?"
These are wise words
and hold much truth, but it’s a pretty broad answer. To motivate
or be motivated requires learning and dedication. Motivation is a
skill that can be easily learned if you possess dedication. We use
motivation daily at home and at work. Subconsciously we’re
striving to motivate ourselves and those we come in contact with.
We use our innate
motivation skills to acquire the results we seek. We use these
skills on our partners, children, our work colleagues and our friends each and everyday to get
our way. It’s a delicate balance between communication and
persuasion. Maybe the old man knew what he was talking about when he
advised to know yourself and be kind to others. For after all to have that quality about you will no doubt help you in being able to motivate others. It’s long been
said that we attract more flies with honey than vinegar.
Offering rewards is an
often used motivational tool. If you dangle a reward on a stick
whether it’s dangling in front of you or someone else it can be
quite an incentive. The greater the reward usually the more
productive you get. Not many people toil for the sheer love of
working anymore.
Set a deadline. Not
only do people balk at working for nothing, they must have a deadline
or it will never get done. Would you pay taxes if you were allowed
to pay them at your own discretion? Many still won’t begin a
project until the deadline approaches. You’re more likely to
complete a project if you impose a deadline.
Set goals. Setting a
goal lets you know where you’re going. It’s hard to hit a moving
target and a goal helps you focus on where you want to be and at a
certain time. Use both short and long term goals. The short-term
goals can be steps to reach the long-term objective. Each time you
satisfy a short-term goal, you’ll feel your inner motivation growing.
Expect the best and
settle for nothing less. If you’re doing the task or someone else
is doing the task for you, insist on the best results or at the very
least demand improvement over the last task. Pride should motivate
you to do your very best.
Enjoy your work by
making it fun and stimulating. Work that’s fun doesn’t seem like
work at all. Stay stimulated by doing various projects that take you
a step closer to the major goal. Stay happy and productive and
you’ll stay motivated.
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